A mother of two, a boy and a girl. Married for sixteen years but have been living a separated life for the last three years. A qualified teacher by profession but working as an assistant-librarian for the past twenty years. I love teaching and working with people, I love children. Life is very challenging for me but I love facing challenges.
Interests
Reading Listening to music Working with children
Favorite Music
Gospel contemporary Country and Western
Favorite Movies
All Tyler Perry movies The colour Purple If tomorrow Comes Silent Twins Sound of Music Widow The Hour of Grace Blood Sisters Enough Mrs. Doubtfire
Favorite TV Shows
Most Extreme All types of News
Favorite Books
The Bible A piece of me/Marlene Hazel For whom the bell tolls/Clyde A. Belfon Your best life now/Joel Osteen Reposition yourself/T.D. Jakes
These are the visible characteristics of an abusive partner 1. Ridicules, Criticizes, and Condemns Does your partner ridicule, criticize, and condemn you? Those who put others down to feel better about themselves often resort to other bad behavior to feel better about themselves too. Don't allow anyone to condemn you, ridicule your choices, or criticize who you choose to be. Walk away. 2. Anger Management Difficulties Does your partner have a short fuse? Does your partner anger easily? Those who anger easily, unable to reason through issues and difficulties often resort to abuse to get what they want. If he kicks the door down, how long will it be until he's kicking you? 3. Self-Centered Attitude Everything in his life is more important than you. He makes sure you know that you really don't count for much, he isn't really interested in you, doesn't even like you very much, but he tolerates you in his life? For what? He chooses anything else over you, and makes certain you know he doesn't value you. 4. Demanding and Possessive Your partner doesn't like your friends and family, and makes every effort to condemn them every chance he gets. He ridicules your family and friends, condemning and criticizing them, using derogatory terms to describe them and you. He's disrespectful of your time and interests. 5. Controlling Your partner must know where you are and have access to you at all times, often following you to work, calling you at work and accusing you of having an affair, flirting, or doing things behind his back. He wants to know everything you do, while keeping secrets about his own activities. 6. Immature and Childish No matter what you do, he doesn't believe you really love him unless you buy him the toys he wants, keep him satisfied, and makes you think it's your fault his life isn't perfect. He blames you and lives by a double standard, expecting you to keep 'rules' that he doesn't follow himself. 7. Irresponsible Your partner isn't responsible, uses you, doesn't take responsibility for himself. He isn't dependable, may not have a job or keep a job, and nothing is ever his fault. He blames everyone else for his failures. He often blames you for his own emotional reactions and bad behaviors.Are you in an Abusive Relationship?
Hello to my loving Mother,how are you i hope blessed.For the short space of time that ive known you,your a kind and loving person with a incredible heart and a passion towards all.I pray that GOD continues to bless you and your two children in many ways as well as you family.Continue to be that loving mother you are to your children and to ME(LOL)........I know that you hardly know me but from the short space of time,i hope that you fine me to be a kind hearted young man who is sincere and geniune.WUV U and may GOD's Blessings conttinue to richly flow in your life..........MWAH